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about a week ago I had a thought of self harming. it was only for a moment but I've never thought about it before. it's like I've never understood why people do it before but now I do. I didn't do it and I don't think I ever would've but idk how to feel about the fact the thought came to me.
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It's better to get help before it gets worse. I used to do self harm. Keeping your therapist/Dr, in the loop is better in the long run. When anxiety/depression gets to much for us to handle, self harm creeps into our mind more than once. Some meds make it worse. If you ever need someone to talk to when you think of doing it, I'm here to listen. ❤️
@DogWhisperer thanks I appreciate that, I feel weird because I don't know if I'm at a problematic level if that makes sense?
@Zorosect it's not that it'd a problematic level, it's just so it doesn't get to that level. Sometimes it can just happen. If you don't want to talk to anyone just yet, if it happens again, write down how you were feeling or what happened up to that point. Writing things down will help you figure out triggers. I know it's easier said then done. It's helped me as I got used to doing so often. Then I got addicted to coloring with sharpies. So whenever I feel down, that's my go to...instead of my arms. Believe me, I still have thoughts. I tell my therapist about it. But I show him that I haven't gone thru with it. And he's proud of me. I also go over my tattoos with sharpies as well. It's helped too.
Intrusive thoughts are common with mental illness, especially if you're exposed to stuff like that. I didn't have thoughts about hurting myself until i had an experience with someone who told me they were hurting themself (they were very toxic about it though). As long as you think you won't actually act on it, you should be okay. Intrusive thoughts are tricky, because it takes effort to undo a mindset. If it was only the once, there shouldn't be much worry, but if it starts to happen more often, even if you don't act on it, I'd consider seeing someone or looking up what to do to undo the mindset
@WeepingWillow715 thanks I think it'd good advice. I hope it was a one time thing, but if it happens more I think I'll say something
That's how I was before I started self harming. I didn't tell anyone or ask for help so it escalated. If you're in the position to get help or if you're able to bring it up with a Healthcare provider/therapist I think it could do some good :)
@Xzla obviously that's my concern. I don't wanna worry people at all but also I don't want to be in a situation where it does escalate
I’ve been there before, it is really scary For me it was when I realized I really needed help
@MixedBag0fMess I have been getting low level help up to this point, but maybe it's a sign I should be getting more help
I feel very similarly. I randomly get those thoughts even though I don't have the mentality to do it. I'm very glad you didn't :)
@shwowbow I don't think I ever actually would so I feel alright but it's scary. Thanks as well :)
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