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My girlfriend lied to me and idk how to feel. If she told be she was going to my ex-friends birthday party I would have been fine, but she lied.
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Anxiety (Including GAD)
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@IAng it’s important that you can believe in what this person tells you. Use the “I feel” statements when expressing how you think! Your friend will feel less threatened in future conversations. Honest communication is the key to good, healthy relationships.
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I'm so sorry, my guy. I had the same things happen to me with an ex-boyfriend. I hope you feel better. ❤️
@UnleggoedEggo we talked it through. She understands that it hurt me a lot. I told her how it made me feel exactly, so hopefully she doesn’t do it again. If she does, then I will talk to her about it even more.
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A lie may cause a trust issue, but also can be used to build on your relationship! Did you ask her why she felt the need to lie to you? Did she believe you might feel betrayed by her attending the party? It’s really never ok to not be truthful. There are different types of lies like a white lie to spare a persons feelings.
@Marjo I did ask her why. She didn’t want me to get hurt because of the fact it’s my ex-best friends party. I just have major trust issues already and wasn’t too hard to figure out that the ex-friend was having a birthday party. This is the first party that they have held that my girlfriend lied about.
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Maybe she feels like you've lied to her.. ? She probably feels like you're not dependable because you don't constantly and consistently show that you don't care about her, don't ask her a lot of questions, don't introduce her to a lot of people, don't give her a lot of attention, don't ask her on a lot of dates, don't give her a lot of compliments, don't give her a lot of time.
@Redvelninja I’m confused as to the assumption of what one person may be doing to the other causing the lie? Dealing in fact verses assumption may help both in this situation. Trust is very important in relationships, but is built over time. With efforts made for no threatening open conversation.
@Redvelninja she lied because I tend to get emotional when the person in question is mentioned. I talked to my girlfriend about it.
@Redvelninja I mean constantly and consistently show that you care about her sorry
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