Losing My Best Friend: What Am I Doing Wrong?

Sounds like maybe she feels better about herself when she’s able to help but when you don’t “need” her she doesn’t know what to do.

I get that, I had to talk with my best friend recently about that, and I would urge you to have that type of conversation with her because it might just be your head making things up.

This is a question only your friend can answer. Go ahead and ask. 🙂 Communication is super important in relationships.

i’m not sure why. what do you mean by “act like i’m nothing to her”? it seems like you feel as though you’re being neglected by her. what is she doing to make you feel this way? if you really value her friendship have a calm sit down conversation with her about this and how you’re feeling. explain what she does, how it makes you feel, and why it makes you feel that way. explain that it’s upsetting and you’re worried that you’re going to lose her as a friend. something similar happened to me when i was in high-school and while i’m glad i’m no longer friends with her I wish i would’ve gone about it differently. hope this helps!